Erik

I was reading a friends blog and she had written all of these nice things about how wonderful her husband was. Then I started to feel guilty. Yes I know that you are so suprised at this idea. Me with guilt. Erik had a bad week a work last week and did some changing to his work schedule and pay and things without consulting with me. I spent all of last week really MAD. I don't know that I was even reasonable in any sense of the word. I really calmed down when he said...

"...this decision has brought me more peace than any other decision I have made in the last three months. I hope you can understand this."

I started to calm down. Things really weren't as bad as I was making them to be. Yes I am very inconvienced by his decision and it makes by life a lot harder but he is at peace. Okay maybe he can regain some of his health that he has lost in the last little while. The doctor said if he kept going at the rate he was he would die in the next 10-15 years. So maybe I needed to calm down. I am still not really happy about the changes to work but I would rather have my husband's health and him here than the 50 cents an hour he is loosing.

With that all being said. Erik has done some amazing things for me lately. I don't know if it is to make up for missing my Birthday or if he just wanted to remind me that he loves me. Heaven knows he will never forget my Birthday again.

Yesterday when I wanted to be up at the capital building early he took off work an hour and got the kids off to school. He even commented on how I looked and found my missing shoe as I was trying to get out the door. He didn't even whine about missing or changing his schedule he just made the changes and kissed me good luck.

He has brought me roses four times in the last two months. He even arranged them for me. One of those times I was stressed getting ready for crop and he put a single red rose on the seat of the van so I would find it when I ran out the door.

He took great care of me while I was sick.

He never said anything about all the crop stuff all over the house for a full month and remaining things still in our garage.

Last night to celebrate my work he took me for dinner. He even said he would go where ever I picked (which is not something he usually says). Although we had the kids with us so I picked a family friendly place.

He arranged a babysitter last Saturday and took me out. I know this sounds really stupid but after fighting all week we needed to get out just the two of us. We used some left over gift cards and just the two of us went out for 3 1/2 hours. The main point is it was his idea and he arranged the babysitting!

Just incase I haven't said it enough lately thank you for being you! I love you.